Personal User Guide

1. Table of Contents
2. Introduction
3. Identity
4. Values
5. Care and Feeding
6. Productivity
7. Favourites
8. Dislikes
9. Strengths
10. Weaknesses
11. Dating Preferences
12. Medical Information
13. Emotional Crisis Assistance Plan

Name: Silver Thompson

Other aliases: Silver Oliander Hunter, Corbin Grey

Pronouns: Fae/Faer or They/Them

Live in Philadelphia, PA, USA

• Queer

  • Trans
    • Nonbinary
      • Gender Fluid
        • Usually trans-masc or agender
      • Percieved as femme
  • Greyasexual
  • Panromantic
  • I build deep emotional bonds with a small group of people
  • Nonmonogomous
  • Polyamorous
  • Relationship Anarchist???
  • Attraction Cake
  • Name and pronouns change regularly
  • Check Introduction for current
• Somewhere between kink positive and very kinky
• Sub leaning switch
• Relationship Sliders
• Zellenial
• Born 1997
• Mixed race
• White and Chinese
• Culturally White
• Medium fat
• Alterhuman/Otherkin/Therian
• Dogkin
• Fae
• Spiritual
• Henotheistic
• Animist
• Seer
• Follower of That Which Is Greater
• Works with The Horned God
• Magic Worker
• Mage
• Witch
• Advocate
• Activist
• Disabled

  • Mentally Ill
  • PTSD
  • Depressed
  • Anxious
  • Crippled
  • Chronically Ill
  • Fibromyalgia
  • Neurodivergent
  • Autistic
  • Current hyperfixations:
    • Dogs/dog training
    • Irish paganism
    • The Society for Creative Anachronism
  • ADHD
  • Service dog handler
• Creative

  • Knitter
  • Writer
  • Performer
  • Singer
  • Dancer
  • Actor
  • Story Teller
• Radical Leftist
• Animal lover
• Nature lover

• Increasing universal joy
• Kindness
• Honesty
• Authenticity
• Integrity
• Community
• Hope
• Loyalty
• Desprite sometimes wishing I wasn't so loyal
• Curiosity
• Creativity

• Food
• Eat 3-5 small meals per day
• Favorite flavors: Chicken, chocolate, and mint
• Foods I don't like: olives, mushrooms, stevia, monk fruit, spinach
• I have gastroparesis. So my ability to eat high fat, high fiber food varies. Ask before offering these foods.
• I rarely drink alcohol
• Must drink a lot of water
• Must eat a lot of salt
• Might have to clean up messes
• Exercise as often as body allows

• Most prodictive times: Late morning and early evening
• Every period of work would ideally be followed by a period of rest
• Body doubling is incredibly helpful
• Being interrupted while doing deep work is very disruptive
• Ask before interrupting

• Favourite Animal: Dog
• In particular: Laika
• Second favourite: Mountain lion
• Favourite flavors: Chicken, Chocolate, and Mint
• Media Genres: Science Fiction and Fantasy
• Music: Spotify playlist
• Colour: Silver
• Youtuber: NerdCubed

• Bigotry of all kinds
• Belief in thought crimes
• Percieved unfairness
• Crowds
• Being touched when I haven't given permission
• Foods I don't like: olives, mushrooms, stevia, monk fruit, spinach

• Creative
• Understands most topics quickly
• Excited about learning
• Caring

• Loyal beyond reason

• Uninterested in children
• The standard: kind, compassionate, and understanding.
• Preferably 26-33 years old
• Curious about life, eager to learn and share information.
• Polyamorous or willing to be with someone who is polyamorous. Compersion is a huge plus.
• Preferably queer. Cishet men need not apply. Cishet women are on thin ice. If you're straight and attracted to me, know you're probably not straight.
• Kinky, preferably a Dom or switch. (Lower priority at the moment)
• Leftist, BLM, ACAB, free Palestine. Radical in your idea of the future
• Fat liberationist, you don't have to like your body but oppression in all forms should be abolished.
• Open to spirituality. You don't have to believe yourself, but I'd rather not get stink eyed for it.
• Interested in communicating regularly but willing to be flexible about when we see each other in person.
• In or near Philadelphia would be preferable but I'm willing to do long distance.
• I'm allergic to nicotine. So please don't smoke around me.
• I don't drink often but I'm fine with responsible substance use of all kinds.
• Lower to mid sex drive. I'm totally willing to have sex but I also don't care if it doesn't happen.
• Understanding of neurodiversity and disability.
• Enjoys physical affection and cuddling.
• Open to seeing gender as expansive
• Strong communication skills
• COVID cautious

• Conditions

  • Mental

    • cPTSD
    • Depression
    • Anxiety
    • OSDD
  • Physical

    • POTS
    • Gastroparesis
    • Migraines
    • Fibromyalgia
    • Asthma
• Medications
• Allergies

  • Amoxicillin
  • Azithromycin
  • Grass
  • Pollen
  • Mold
  • Ragweed (Stevia)

• Phone calls or texts: Texts for anything nonurgent but please call if it's an emergency. My state is not an emergency, no matter what you think. Do not call to ask about me. Expect me to be grumpy and keep all calls short. Focus on the information you want to give, not getting information out of me.
• Tell me if you want to reach out but can't
• If I'm not speaking, try basic ASL or yes/no questions
• Talk about it/talk about something else/leave alone: Ask or give options. Remind me to use my emergency plan.
• Are hugs okay: Probably but always ask first. I love physical contact and find it very comforting but if I'm overstimulated, I need to regulate first.
• Should people visit: Definitely but make sure you schedule it before hand. Also expect me to be low energy. Bringing food makes it more likely I will eat.
• What things helps: Cute animals, lighthearted stuff (especially if it's nerdy), Music, simple projects to focus on (Puzzles, games, etc.)
• Offer to fill water bottle or bring beverages (never alcohol)
• Offer to take away used tissues
• Take me on a walk or to sit outside